David Rutherford, a beloved husband, father, grandfather and skilled craftsman, passed away
on May 9, 2024, in Kansas City, KS, at the age of 61. He was born on January 5, 1963, in
Vinita, OK, to his mother Eva and the late Walter Rutherford. David is survived by his loving wife
of 34 years Pam, cherished children Patrick (Amanda), Sammy, and Nicole Otterstatter
(Maustin), adored grandchildren Theodore, Skyla, and Ivy, beloved mother Eva, dear brothers
Walt (Nancy) and Kenneth, and caring sisters Sue Clark and Linda Guinn (Dave).
Dave was a true visionary and perfectionist at his craft as a remodeling contractor who owned
his own business. He had amazing abilities and an artistic imagination when it came to
woodworking and remodeling, which came to life through his work. His attention to detail was
unmatched and he always treated others’ homes as, “if it were my house.”
Dave’s wife, kids and grandkids were the joys of his life. He made the most of every moment
with all of them. During his battle with cancer, he focused and fought hard to provide an amazing
home and lake house for the family to enjoy in his absence. His wish was for his family to “live
his dream.” Sadly, the dream of his family was to be able to live it by his side.
Dave battled with Leiomyosarcoma for over 7 years. And boy did he fight. He had his ups and
downs, but in the end succumbed to the disease’s relentlessness. Dave underwent surgeries,
multiple rounds of chemotherapy and radiation treatments. He fought harder and gutted more
pain than any normal man should be able to endure. He wore a smile even on the toughest
days and made it a point to continue to be a present husband, father, papa, and friend.
People who knew Dave well enjoyed his quick wit and inappropriate sense of humor. He was
always able to provide a comment at the most opportune time, whether to lighten the mood or
just to get a quick chuckle. Something he never lost, even in his last days.
The Rutherford family invites friends and loved ones to join them for a visitation service at
Sacred Heart of Jesus Catholic Church in Shawnee, KS, on Friday, May 17, from 5:00-7:00 PM.
A Mass will also be held in honor of David at the church on May 18th at 10:00 AM.
In recognition of the compassionate care he received, the Rutherford family extends a special
thank you to the Doctors, Nurses, and staff at The University of Kansas Hospital, particularly the
oncology and internal medicine teams who supported David throughout his battle.
David’s legacy of hard work, love for his family, and exceptional craftsmanship will forever live
on in the hearts of those who knew him. He will be deeply missed and fondly remembered as a
remarkable man who touched the lives of so many.
Have fun fishing with Greg. Try to quit casting over his line.
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