Berniece ‘B’ Miller
Berniece Beatrice ‘B’ Miller, 77, peacefully passed away on February 2, 2010 at her home surrounded by her loving family and friends.
‘B’ was born on January 14, 1933 in Kansas City, Kansas, the youngest daughter of the late Eddie and Florene Meyer. She is survived by her husband of 57 years, Albert and 5 children: son Steve and wife Jeannie of Annandale, Virginia; daughter Deb Shackelford and husband Jeff of Overland Park, Kansas; son David of Shawnee, Kansas; daughter Diane Hydeman and husband Kent of Roeland Park, Kansas; son Joseph of Harvard, Illinois. She also leaves behind 12 beautiful grandchildren: Lauren, Lindsay, Seth, Logan, Anastacia, Christina, Lance, Ana, Erik, Katarina, Elizabeth and Tristen. She is survived by her younger brother, Robert Meyer of Shawnee, Kansas, and preceded in death by sister, Mary Lou Gagahan.
‘B’ grew up in Shawnee and graduated from Shawnee Mission Rural High School, (today known as Shawnee Mission North High School) where she earned a couple of nicknames . . . as a “swell gal”, she was called “Blondie” for her golden locks and “Torchy” for her beautiful, melodic voice. Upon graduation from high school, ‘B’ married her lifelong sweetheart and only love, Albert, weeks prior to his deployment to the Korean War. It is Albert to whom she had written her first love letter to in first grade.
Professionally, ‘B’ was most recently associated with Prudential KC Realty where she was consistently recognized as a multi-million dollar sales agent. She was very passionate and dedicated about her career and spent over 40 years in real estate. With 30+ years as a real estate sales professional, she personally assisted many families throughout Kansas City with their achievement of home ownership. Her career also included the responsibility as the chief of operations for her husband’s company, M&M Masonry where she managed all back office reporting, accounting and support.
‘B’ was active as a Red Coater in the Shawnee Chamber of Commerce; Committee for Veteran’s Tribute in Shawnee; Former President of PTA at St. Joseph High School, Shawnee; founding member of the St. Joseph’s High School fund-raising auction; Camp Fire troop leader; and volunteer for numerous charities including most recently, Advice and Aid Pregnancy Center .
‘B’ was well known throughout her life for her enduring positive attitude and energetic approach along with her non-stop full-of-life soul, always putting others first and smiles on the faces of everyone she met. Her love of life, music, family and friends filled the air, always sharing her love and affection over a glass of wine. She also enjoyed skiing and golf with her daughters and best friends. Never wanting the spotlight, she took over the room with her lovely smile and friendly demeanor. She will be forever missed for her style and grace.
The Miller family would like to give special thanks to Grace Hospice, American Companion Care, and The Sweet Life of Rosehill for their loving and compassionate care provided during her final days.
In lieu of flowers, ‘B’ requested donations be sent to Advice and Aid Pregnancy Center, P. O. Box 7123, Shawnee, Kansas 66207-0123.
Visitation and Funeral Mass
The public visitation will be held on Friday, February 5, 2010, at St. Joseph’Catholic Church, Shawnee, Kansas. The Rosary will begin at 6:00 p.m., followed by the visitation till 8 p.m. The Catholic funeral mass and services will be held in her honor on Saturday, February 6, 2010, at St. Joseph Catholic Church, at 10:00 a.m., followed by a burial at Resurrection Cemetery in Lenexa, Kansas.
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Our prayers are with her and your family.
Our hearts are sad with the loss of a very special lady. My thoughts and prayers to the entire family!
Al and family- We send our deepest sympathy and love in the loss of one of the most special ladies we’ve been priveledged to call our our friend and “family”.
Linda and Brian want to extend their sincere sympathy to “B”’s family in their loss.
B was a very special lady and I always enjoyed her smiling face and witty conversation. . . .I’m going to miss her; we are all going to miss her. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
We have such fond memories of the ever smiling “B”. What a beautiful lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Miller Family at this very sad time.
Dear Deb and family. Hold on tight to each other during this time and know that your beautiful, vibrant mom is resting so peacfully in the arms of our dear Jesus. She will forever be by your side, she will forever be in your heart. God Bless you all and know that I will keep you in my constant prayers!
B’s energy, electric personality and humor will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the Miller family.
Dear Miller Family,
“B” was a very special lady and always had a smile and kind things to say. Her shinning example will always live on in each one of us. My prayers and thoughts are with the family at this difficult time.
My Deepest Sympathy,
Patty Koch
Dear Deb & Family, I feel honored to have known B. In the short time I knew her I was impressed by her verve! She always had a smile and something witty to share. By knowing Deb she was also a wonderful Mother! She will be missed.
We were so sorry to hear about your loss of B…she was a nice, friendly lady….glad we knew her…
I am so sorry to learn of “B’s ” passing . I had just seen her on tour
in early November and we hugged each other,
We shared an office at Coldwell Banker on 87 st in the 80’s. Loved her like a sister , my prayers are with you Al and all the family.
We’re so sorry to hear of B’s passing and please know that you and B will be in our prayers. As a REALTOR, I’ve known B for more than twenty years and always enjoyed her zest for living and her passion for our shared business. As trainer for J. C. Nichols Residential, our Board and State Associations, I could count on B for a smiling face in any class and for sharing her knowledge and expertise. She was a beautiful lady and a benefit to all of us. God Bless you all.
Corky & Jim Hyatt
The wonderful memories you have of your Mother will be
treasured in your heart all your life.
We pray the Lord will comfort you and surround with
His peace and love during this difficult time.
Dear Albert and Family:
I was sad and sorry to hear the news about ‘B’. She was a very special person and friend. She was always so nice to me ever since I can remember, and that goes a long way back. Albert, Steve, Debbie, David, Diane, Joe and all the family, please know all of you and ‘B’ are in Tammy’s and my prayers.
Your Friends;
Mark and Tammy Hoelting
“B” was a special lady. She would tell you exactly what was on her mind which is what I loved about her. She always had a kind word and a great smile. I will miss you “B”. My prayers are with the family….
Diane and family, I am so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful person she must have been! Let your memories be a comfort, and know that she is watching out for you.
“B” was an amazing woman that approached life with grace and a wonderful sense of humor! She will be sorely missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with the Miller family and anyone that was lucky enough to have known “B”.
Deb and Jeff, I am sorry for your loss. I will keep your mother in my prayers as she begins her next journey in heaven.
May God Bless you and your family during this difficult time.
In the relatively short time I knew ‘B’ I was always enchanted by her “spunk’, ‘delightful fashion’ and her obvious caring for others. She will be greatly missed. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with her family at this very sad time.
The passing of a wonderful woman and a great friend. Our hearts and prayers go out to the family.
I first met B many years ago when my Mother was in Real Estate. She introduced us, and told me later that B was one of the true class acts she had known. My Mother passed on, and one day I had a delightful woman come in for a business portrait. She was so fabulous, and it turned out to be B. We enjoyed a great working relationship over the years, and I can say my Mother was so right, she was a class act. My condolences, B was a wonderful woman, and I am sure sorely missed by all! Terri Voyles
A great lady who will be missed by many. I know where she will be and hope to be with her again. Her Catholic strength helped me to decide to join the church. You will have many fond memories.
“B” was always terrific to work with. Hi energy and very professional. I will miss her and pray for her and the Miller family.
My thoughts and prayers are with the Miller family. Her smile will truly be missed.
I have worked with B for many years, and she was not only a terrific Realtor but a wonderful human being
She will be missed by all of us who were lucky enough to call her our friend
Pat Tholen
To the Miller family,
Our heartfelt sympathy to you all. We met B on only a few occasions. She was a lovely person. Condolences to her many family members and friends.
Doug and Tina Kean
Deb and Jeff,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that we are thinking of you at this difficult time. Our prayers are with you.
Sean and Lisa Gabel
B was a very special lady, she will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Albert and the rest of the Miller family.
Deb & Jeff,
I was so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you & all of your family during this difficult time. I’m thinking of you…
Love,
Ann Sirna
I know “B” will be greatly missed. She really was a special lady! My thoughts & prayers are with her friends & family.
Angie Tunison
Dear Family,
I only met your wife and mother several years ago when she
brought a client in to make selects on a new home. She was
so peasant and kind helping them. I remember her smile
and unusal name like mine.
My prayers are with all the family.
Sincerey,
kitty
Deb, Diane and Family – Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad time. Having learned this from the loss of our mothers, though B is gone physically from you, she will forever live and be with you all in your memories. And may those memories bring you peace as time passes. With our love, Paul and Rosemary
I am so sad to her about Berniece’s passing. I did not know her very well . My brother Larry was good friend’s with Joe.
Berniece was very comforting to me when she came through the line at my mom’s visitation last April.
Berniece is now at peace in heaven. I pray that Berniece and my mom will be great friends in paradise.
Dear Family,
“B” will be sorely missed by all. We will miss her smile and her witt, but most of all we will miss one of the truly nice people in our Real Estate family. I am proud to have known her, learned from her and worked with her.
Kerwin Holloway
Dear Family,
We are very sorry for your most precious loss. We know of “B” through Diane’s stories. She shared stories about her Mom with us and always had a big smile as she talked about their experiences together. What wonderful memories and keepsakes! Our thoughts and prayers are with the Miller and Hydeman families today and for every tomorrow.
So sorry to hear of your loss. May your fond memories help you through this difficult time. B sold me my first house over twenty years ago. She had such a zest for life and was so very wonderful to work with.
We are so sad to learn that B passed this week. She sold us our very first house and 14yrs.later she was there to help us with the next home. She was so nice and we had a great time looking for that perfect home. I still laugh at some of the homes we looked at,there were at couple of houses we couldn’t get out of fast enough.Then she would say could you believe that one?. She was one of my regular email buddies after all these years. She loved getting pictures of our daughter,and I loved getting her emails. She will be missed by our family. It is very hard to loose a parent,and she was there for me when my mom passed. We will be thinking of the family and our prayers will said tonight for B.
Al & Family – I was sad to hear today of B’s passing. She lived well, loved well, and was a great friend and associate. The years we worked together at JC Nichols Real Estate are some of my fondest
memories. She was a dependable advocate for her friends and loved ones. Tho’ we miss her more than words can describe..she
surely lives in the presence of her risen Savior in Heaven. May you be blessed with His Grace and the know the peace of His Love today and always!
My thoughts are with you as you look to the days ahead without your wife, mother, and friend. ‘B’ was a dear lady… always a good word & a smile for everyone. She was definitely an asset to our real estate family, and she will be missed.
I am so sorry for your loss. “B” was a wonderful woman and will be missed by all. My prayers go out to your families.